Do we really need someone special in our life?

 

You know why today’s generation need a boyfriend/girlfriend; you may say we don’t need anyone but according to my experience it’s all about our family.

Because in this modern world everyone is busy with their own world of smartphones and ignoring kids; not intentionally but as they are busy with their own world of smartphones, Kids get less attention eventually it leads to find someone who cares for us, at least someone who shows he cares for us.

Second most thing is cartoons, movies, and tv shows our family saw in front of us.

Indirectly it’s affecting our Mentality to have someone loved in our life other than family members,

Also lack of attention to our kids lead to find someone, also kids hesitate to open up in front of family members, family members needs to be friendly with their kids.

If you like someone for their looks, physicality, grades, money, property but not for what they really are. Trust me it’s not love its mere infatuation which we tend to have on people whom we spend a lot of time within a confined space like our school, college or work place. But if you like someone's character have mutual respect for each other, trust each other, accept them with all their short comings, can love them without meeting them for ages (yes you read that right) and if you are doing accept them the way they're because nobody is ideal (including God himself). Then that is true love.

If not, then please stop then and there.

There are always certain aspects of ourselves which we hide. Sometime we have to show our funny side, sometime our mature side. Often, we put a mask suiting the situation. Sooner or later, we get uninterested in pretending and obtain frustrated by all this. In those times we feel the absence of somebody whom we will show our fear, insecurities, dark side, immaturity, carelessness, irrationality, childishness, boring side and each such thing which we have kept within the hidden chambers of our heart.